Clarity is something that seems to come in fits and starts. There´s a break-through and then some fog, another break-through and more fog. It isn´t going to be clear and sunny every day as we move into creating our amazing life. Clarity comes in stages.
So perhaps you know that you want more freedom but you don´t know how you are going to achieve it. Or you know you want to change jobs but you have no idea what you really want to do. Many come to me for consulting because they know they have a bigger life purpose but they just aren´t clear on what that looks like.
Here are a few suggestions to help you and some reassurances too!
Not knowing what the next five years is going to look like blow by blow, detail by detail is normal and probably a good thing. So relax and have a goal in mind but don´t worry yourself to death about how you´re going to accomplish it.
Take a baby step in the direction that feels like it could be the way you want to head. See how it feels and then you can take the next step or not.
Last week I took a couple of baby steps, signed up for a workshop, hired a word press expert and then cancelled the workshop 3 days later. Why? It didn´t feel right after all. I was doing it for all the wrong reasons and so I changed my mind.
However, with the word press expert, I got some further clarity and am now in the process of delegating more administrative and internet marketing tasks. That feels like the direction I want to go.
So start small if you feel unsure and see how it feels.
You may find talking through things with a coach or a good friend works for you. I also journal. I can write a couple of pages in my journal, argue with myself and defend both positions. It can be quite amusing. Then sometimes I need to sleep on it and suddenly there´s more clarity.
Come to terms with the fact that you will make mistakes and sometimes take a wrong turn. Oops! Wrong way! Turn around and head in the other direction. It´s not life and death. It´s a detour. Nothing more so don´t make those little bloopers along the way stop you or get blown out of proportion.
I also talk to myself. I know. My mother told me that people who talk to themselves are crazy. Well, then I must be crazy because I get lots of benefit out of talking to myself. Sometimes when I don´t have the time to journal through an issue, I´ll talk myself through it and it´s amazing how much clarity I can get.
Hopefully these few suggestions will give you some insight as to how you can get more clarity in creating your amazing life. If you´ve got any suggestions that work for you, I´d love to hear them.
And don´t forget to get your free ebook, Overcoming Adversity with Grace at www.overcomersinc.com/grace I´m a contributing author and there are some great tips in the book! Take advantage of them.
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